Perks of Long Distance Relationship

                                                               Long Distance Relationship
                                                  

Three words that mostly people are scared of... Long... Distance...Relationship...

Skype, Facebook, Social Media, story of my life. Yes I'm in a long distance relationship. No it's not easy. Yes it's worth every moment. I would have never thought that I myself will experience LDR. I remember when I was talking to a friend of mine who was recently dealing with LDR, telling her I will never ever be in this kind of situation. But one day boom! I'm in the same situation. 12 hours of time difference, his daytime is my night, what else can go wrong? The feeling of loneliness that you experience when you leave him behind as your plane flies out and he’s not there beside you. Hate dramatic goodbyes at the airport. . Let me tell you something. It is tough. The time I had to leave him was one of the worse feeling I have ever felt in my entire life, but also one of the happiest. It's like eating sour patches. Sour-Sweet-Gone. In order for a long distance relationship to work all you really need is trust, love, loyalty,a big patience, and COMMUNICATION!  I'm tired of hearing people saying it will never work out, but no f*ck was given as long as we both know that we will never be affected to any negativity from others. We may be far away from each other but distance won't stop us. I heard that people who are facing LDR are the most bravest ones, and that Long distance is the most easiest to fall in love. You learn to love the person for who they really are emotionally, mentally, and not physical. In the end, when you are together this strong bond will become more stronger without any doubt of who this person really is. That what makes this kind of relationship so special. Skype dates, Crying, doing things together, fighting, challenges that makes it special. The times that you miss them so much, craving for their physical presence, missing every little things they do that makes you smile. It stings when I see other happy couples together, hugging, laughing, holding hands, doing things that you wish you could be doing with you love one. Sucks isn't it? One thing what makes LDR so special is it is BEAUTIFUL. Because you live for the beautiful moments, how you cherish every moment you talk, memorize how they laugh, never ending stories of how their day went, limitless serious conversation and NO SLEEP are the best. So for the people out there who are dealing with LDR you should feel special, because all these things are worth it. Always remember Distance can be measure. Love cannot. Love will therefore always, always overcome distance. <3 Always be happy! Ciao! :)

S E L F I S H

I'm afraid of losing you. I'm not someone with over the top confidence. I get jealous when I see others try to talk to you in a flirty way. I often catch myself second guessing every situation in the worst way possible. It's a scary though knowing there are millions of people out there who have a lot more to offer than me, whether it's looks, personality, or the way they carry themselves.I guess I'm selfish, I want you all to myself and I can't help it.

The text that broke your heart

The text that broke your heart.

Ever had that? Ever recieved a text message from someone, wether you woke up to it, got it during the day or before you ended your night & you looked at your phone & saw this long message, filled with words that hurt you, that completely changed your mood, that stopped you from breathing & put you in total disbelief? That everything you guys went through just ended by that text message? Crazy how a simple text message can make you feel complicated inside. </3

I <3 DOMO

Am I good enough?

                    Insecurities 

                        

How to overcome your insecurities? Each and every one of us has our own insecurities especially when it comes to our body. To be specific when it comes to the ladies, I don't understand how a lot of men narrows down the preference of a woman's body which makes us more insecure?. Either they want big boobs or big ass they would say "I'm not really into her just because she doesn't have big boobs, I'm a boob man" or, "I'm more into ass" like seriously.. The female body is so beautiful and amazing that it needs to be appreciated in every way. Either Big, petite, curvy, flat it doesn't matter because everybody deserves to be called beautiful.

 To be honest, sometimes I feel very insecure abut myself but for me to overcome this thinking I just think differently, I would always tell myself there's something about me that is different and stands out to some people out there, and who will truly appreciate me to what I am and what I have. Remember CONFIDENCE is very sexy. And it's always about your attitude and personality to others. Yes, you are very pretty but if your attitude stinks then you should be insecure about your personality. 

Always remember we are all unique and never let society or whoever tell you that you are not enough. Someone who is very close to me  sent me a beautiful quote,  "In every female's imperfection is a man's perfection" <3 While writing this I was actually thinking about this quote to what it actually means. In my own perspective, I think this quote means that, if you think you are insecure about your body, it means somebody out there thinks that every flaws that you have is beautiful. If someone isn't happy about yourself, honey, just raise your hand, stick out that middle finger and say screw it! So always remember always have your head up high, be confident to who you are, and remember that personality always counts first! ;) 

xoxo

Read this when you start to feel weak

                              Too much can hurt

         

Love someone who doesn't love you back? hurts isn't it? You try to give them everything and all you can for them but never appreciate what you do.You try to wait and wait and wait until you think they can feel the same way. you know the fact that they don't love you but afraid to face the truth. I'm sorry if you're dealing with such a tough situation. Often times we make a very simple fact much more complicated than it actually is. If you already know the guy or girl does not want to be with you but you aren't ready to accept it... LET GO. There are a lot of reasons to the question why.It can be they're dealing with a lot and if I were you just let them deal with it for now. Don't let him or her use you when it's convenient for him or her. 

I know it's really really hard to love someone and walk away from it because that's just a very unnatural thing for us as humans to do. Do not wait for him/her. If  you guys are supposed to end up together, you will.  But waiting is just going to hurt you. Just as much as you want him or her to love you, you should also want him/her to respect you. If they see you waiting around for them, sacrificing your own happiness in hopes that he/she will eventually feel the same, he/she will not respect you.
Even though they might be upset when you walk away, he will respect you because you cared enough about yourself and your own happiness to walk away from something that was hurting you.

when a guy cries

Don’t you just hate it when a guy cries in front of you? Or you see a guy crying in the movies… It’s heartbreaking. Just to think of it, every one of us are used to seeing women cry ,and when you see a man crying it’s different. You see the real emotion; it feels like you can feel the hurt, tears of joy, sympathy. To be honest I've never seen my dad cry in front of me, I don’t know how I’ll feel or act if I do. I've seen some guy cry in front of me and I didn't know what to do, seeing the tear run down their cheeks, it fucking broke my heart. </3

When a man cries in my opinion it’s a real serious shit, you barely see them cry but when they do that means whatever reason it was they are solemn about it. I find it very hard to see a man cry. I guess it’s because men in my eyes are tough and strong. 
At the same time I kinda like it when a guy cries in front of me. it shows their true feelings and to what they really are. It's okay to cry. It doesn't make you less tough if you do, because a real man cries.